FM Transmitter for music with electrical output flow control based on the music.

My idea is for Christmas Light control. When a car drive up towards the house, there'll be a sign saying to switch to a certain FM Radio station that will output Christmas music. While that's happening, I want the Christmas lights to strobe or turn off depending on the beat of the music playing(or have a set list of music with a light sequence attached in a table).

Any ideas on what I would need to do this?

Magic!

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for an FCC legal transmitter, the best choice is the Whole House transmitter. second best is the C. Crane. yes, this is based on personal knowledge; I have one of each

then see https://create.arduino.cc/projecthub/search?q=lights+music