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for the resistors, buy 1% values, and if you want them matched even closer, use a decent multimeter to measure their values.
Don't forget to use good supply bypassing-- put at last a .1Uf capacitor near the op amp's power pins.
As to the 'ideal' amplifier with an LM384... this is perhaps a bit like trying to build a Porsche with Lego parts. Spend a few bucks and upgrade the chip! Try the TLC2274, or one of the ones mentioned by @paulb above. Here's a link to TI's OP amp selector. If you sign up as a developer on their site, they'll happily send you a few free samples of their chips.
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