johnwasser, you have write method that I used. But there was error about port.
BUT now I was wrong. AND now I really need some help.
I have loaded ArduinoISP to the Atmega328p on the board.
Connected all like this :

(at the last times its worked for uploading sketches)
Selected all like this :
johnwasser:
Select Tools->Port->the port for your UNO
Select Tools->Programmer->Arduino as ISP
Select Tools->Board->Arduino NG or older
Select Tools->Burn Bootloader
And had the error (like in previous) that IDE cant connect to the port, AND "efuse" memory type not defined for part "ATmega8". After that error Atmega8 was working and normally loading the sketches (without bootloader preinstalled).
BUT THEN i have read that post:
http://forum.arduino.cc/index.php?topic=333707.0
AND deleted that string from platform.txt:
-Uefuse: w: {bootloader.extended_fuses}: m
AND now I have that error:
avrdude: Yikes! Invalid device signature.
Double check connections and try again, or use -F to override
this check.
AFTER i have returned the string to the platform.txt BUT error have stayed.
SO Im burned my atmega8 ?
Because I have read some posts, they says that this error about wires connection. BUT previously I have loaded blink sketch to it with the same wiring, and nothing changed after. (It was 1 min before my FATAL stupidity). SO problem not about wiring. I think problem may be in fuse bits.
Help me to understand what is wrong, FUSE BITS or BUNED CHIP.
Full LOG from arduino ide:
avrdude: Version 6.0.1, compiled on Apr 15 2015 at 19:59:58
Copyright (c) 2000-2005 Brian Dean, http://www.bdmicro.com/
Copyright (c) 2007-2009 Joerg Wunsch
System wide configuration file is "C:\Program Files (x86)\Arduino\hardware\tools\avr/etc/avrdude.conf"
Using Port : COM3
Using Programmer : stk500v1
Overriding Baud Rate : 19200
AVR Part : ATmega8
Chip Erase delay : 9000 us
PAGEL : PD7
BS2 : PC2
RESET disposition : dedicated
RETRY pulse : SCK
serial program mode : yes
parallel program mode : yes
Timeout : 200
StabDelay : 100
CmdexeDelay : 25
SyncLoops : 32
ByteDelay : 0
PollIndex : 3
PollValue : 0x53
Memory Detail :
Block Poll Page Polled
Memory Type Mode Delay Size Indx Paged Size Size #Pages MinW MaxW ReadBack
----------- ---- ----- ----- ---- ------ ------ ---- ------ ----- ----- ---------
eeprom 65 20 4 0 no 1024 4 0 3600 3600 0xff 0xff
flash 65 6 128 0 yes 32768 128 256 4500 4500 0xff 0xff
lfuse 0 0 0 0 no 1 0 0 4500 4500 0x00 0x00
hfuse 0 0 0 0 no 1 0 0 4500 4500 0x00 0x00
efuse 0 0 0 0 no 1 0 0 4500 4500 0x00 0x00
lock 0 0 0 0 no 1 0 0 4500 4500 0x00 0x00
calibration 0 0 0 0 no 1 0 0 0 0 0x00 0x00
signature 0 0 0 0 no 3 0 0 0 0 0x00 0x00
Programmer Type : STK500
Description : Atmel STK500 Version 1.x firmware
Hardware Version: 2
Firmware Version: 1.18
Topcard : Unknown
Vtarget : 0.0 V
Varef : 0.0 V
Oscillator : Off
SCK period : 0.1 us
avrdude: AVR device initialized and ready to accept instructions
Reading | ################################################## | 100% 0.07s
avrdude: Device signature = 0x000000 (retrying)
Reading | ################################################## | 100% 0.06s
avrdude: Device signature = 0x000000 (retrying)
Reading | ################################################## | 100% 0.06s
avrdude: Device signature = 0x000000
avrdude: Yikes! Invalid device signature.
Double check connections and try again, or use -F to override
this check.
avrdude done. Thank you.