There is no general rule for labeling - it depends from which side you are looking so please use the datasheets. Why do you think WE should use the datasheets??
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If in doubt just connect the pins through a 4.7 or 10k resistor. This will prevent any harm if the connection is wrong. Then try it vice versa. If you have to solder an adapter you can just leave those resistors
Thanks for your response, I have found the datasheets and it describes the port in question, funny thing is it's the only port on the board that isn't labeled. No markings, no screen print labels. I was posting hoping that someone else had run across this problem.
Well i think i have killed my board somehow but have no idea how to test it, The FTDI board programs a Diavolino by Evil Mad Science just fine, but when plugged into the Stalker it just flashes the RX light and nothing happens, it just sits there.