Likewise, I do not cede you the right to place limits upon the questions I may pose.
I'm not trying to impose any limits on the questions you ask. You asked for links to tutorials to using the ethernet shield. Then, you complained that they were inadequate/wrong/assumed stuff you didn't know/didn't apply.
I think that you have unrealistic expectations. You expect us to do your research for you, and only point you to hand-holding tutorials that explain in detail what you need to do, without trying to teach you anything else, while not saying exactly what it is you want to do. I don't see how we can be expected to do that.
A request, if I may: (Quoting a sign I have over my desk)
Be nice, or go away.
I'm not going away. I just won't be responding to you, anymore.