That is pretty much the schematic. It shows everything up to the UART pins on the micro...
Since this posting I've discovered the isolated voltage for the RS232 (COMM2 and COMM4) is 13V.
I also see this optocoupler design in a number of different google searches. Yes, COMM4 is isolated GND. Thank you for confirming that.
At 13V, it seems a TTL to Serial converter would work to communicate to the device. But, when I add this, the LEDs DS1 and DS2 will stay lit, depending on how I connect the RX/TX pins of the Serial converter and am unable to communicate with the device using the these pins. I can communicate using the UART pins on the mirco... Just not the 'right' way, through this isolated connection.
As I type this, it may be that I was confused on the isolated ground. I was using USB to power the Arduino. Not the Isolated 13V power supply. Perhaps by using the isolated power supply it will complete the circuit. 
My goodness. All the google searching shows there are a few solutions out there by chip manufacturers. Some even have examples, circuit design considerations, etc..
One such chip is the ADM3252E .. Amazing chip. HUGE cost!!! Like, $30.00USD -- for a Serial chip.
[https://www.analog.com/en/analog-dialogue/articles/designing-robust-isolated-rs-232-data-interfaces.html](https://Read more about the chip here)
Looking for a cheaper alternative, I thought I found one.. And, I guess, I did, but it requires off-chip components, optocouplers, transformer, .. Might as well not use the chip at all... MAX250 / MAX251 I think it is. Yes. The datasheet says, "The MAX252 has all the required components for RS232 communication in a single package." Geeze. Ok. Great. Let's take a look at the MAX252....
Wow! This chip also comes in a 40 pin dip. Let's order a bunch to experiment with...
Not a bad price, found them on eBay for about $9.00 USD with shipping.
Ok, let's make the circuit board... ...... reading reading ... NOOO
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"For applications requiring higher isolation ratings or transmission rates greater than 9600 baud, Maxim recommends the MAX250 and MAX251 device set that uses external optocouplers and transformer."
Cancel that order! I need 19,200 baud. Feeling defeated, went to bed.
Is there a reasonably priced (~ $8.00 USD) chip out there that does isolated RS232 at a speed of 19,200 baud?
I'll try powering the arduino with the isolated power supply instead of the USB port some day..