i always get avrdude: stk500_recv(): programmer is not responding

windows 10 pro 64bit
Arduino im using Amazon.com

I have the correct serial port tried multiple usb ports
I have reinstalled the drivers
I have tried different processes
my Arduino lights are

Did you select the correct com port in the IDE?

Check in Windows device manager which extra port shows up when you connect the nano; that's the one to select in the IDE.

I did not follow the link; if this is a clone, you might have to install the CH340 driver.

I had the same problem: it came from the DTR pin.
Have a look on my post and read the way to do it.
Success is close.