I cant control the relay, for some reason, i dont know why, pls help, thanks

Using Arduino LEDs and Multiplexing
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#include <IRremote.h> 
int ledstate=LOW;
int relaystate=HIGH;
int led=13;
int relay=3;
IRrecv irrecv(11); 
decode_results results; 
void setup(){
 irrecv.enableIRIn(); //Boot infrared decoding
 pinMode(led,OUTPUT);
 pinMode(relay,OUTPUT);
  digitalWrite(relay,relaystate);
  digitalWrite(led,ledstate);
  Serial.begin(9600);
}
void loop() {
 
 if (irrecv.decode(&results)) {
  Serial.println(results.value,HEX);
  if(results.value == 0xFD00FF){
 ledstate =!ledstate; 
 relaystate=!relaystate;
 Serial.print("resusts= ");
 Serial.println(results.value,HEX);
 Serial.print("ledstate is =");
 Serial.println(ledstate);
 Serial.print("relaystate is=");
 Serial.println(relaystate);
   digitalWrite(led,ledstate);
   digitalWrite(relay,relaystate);
 } 
 irrecv.resume();
 }
 Serial.println("Waiting for results........");
}[code]
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What works or not works?
Wiring diagram helps.

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So tell us what you see in the serial monitor?
Better yet copy and paste it into some code tags.

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Here we go again... remember this thread?

At least he put code tags this time!