I changed some variables and got a new set of errors (which i hope are better then teh old set..)
No errors are "better" than other errors. "No errors" is better than "any errors".
What part of those messages do you not understand? You seem to be trying to use a NewSoftSerial instance as though it was an LCD. You can't do that.
You can use NewSoftSerial to talk to an LCD, if it is a serial LCD, but that is going to require either that you understand what to send to the LCD to make it do stuff, OR a change to the library to make it use a software serial port, instead of the hardware serial port.
I'd suggest that you go study this page:
http://www.arduino.cc/playground/Learning/SparkFunSerLCD