i don't have a knowledge for use XAMPP to connect my arduino please, someone to help me
I think what you are looking for is http://blog.thiseldo.co.uk/?p=504 for the enc28j60 and http://winkleink.blogspot.co.uk/2012/08/arduino-ethernet-ethercard-xamp-web.html for the XAMPP. Start watching some English TV Shows with English subtitles. Those helped me a lot (I'm from germany). Then you could write better Forum or Google-Search requests :D.