Sorry, Missed the obvious out.
I am using a pro-mini with a nokia display.
The 2 menu buttons are wired to ground and pin 8 and Pin 9, pulling these pins down when pressed.
The pinouts, instead of a wiring diagram for the moment are as follows:-
D7 to Nokia RST
D6 to Nokia CE
D5 to nokia DC
D4 to nokia DIN
D3 to nokia CLK
D2 to nokia backlight via 400 ohm
Nokia supply to vcc
IR led to pin D13 via 75 ohm
Button Nxt to D9 and -ve
Button OK to D8 and -ve
Thank you