The thing that irks me the most is, the (online) community I call home is praised for things like friendliness, that it supplies plenty of (constructive) critique, but also praise where praise is due. Most of these things feel natural and normal to me, so irk me a lot here.. in particular when people post in a hostile fashion that the original poster should provide more details because we can't geuss what they want. While this is quite easy to figure out when you think about it, when I code.. and I'm stuck.. I oversee a lot of things, so I can definitly see how someone could withhold a lot of critical information when posting a question, simply because of the frustration of not being able to figure it out.
Though I have to side a bit with crosh. Deleting the post entirely when people try to answer.. makes it annoying and harder to search for those topics. It degrades the knowledgebase more than just some stray posts :-/