Put me into the arrogant camp. But why is this the case? When questions come in the form of: Pls hlp me connct motors!!! One starts to wonder, what the original poster is willing to contribute. No, he didn't look at the tutorials, no he didn't look in the forums for similar problems of which there are many, no he didn't even look on the internet for solutions to realise there's more than one type of motor which may be relevant for his question. All he does is to come here and expect to get help, very often in the form of a finished product. And this attitude's something I don't like, so from me he'll probably get a sarcastic or caustic answer which points him in the right direction. That's my hobby and contributation to make the world a better place.
Also you'll notice, that people who ask nicely in a reasonable manner get this treatment very rarely. There must be link between those unrelated observations, I think.
Korman