You can't drive 12V led bar from arduino directly, there are options:
- use a transistors - 3, one per color;
- use simple transistor array IC ULN2803 or similar ;
3 specialized led drivers IC, MAX7219, TLC5940, WSxxxxx etc.
Check out this link, there are small color organ and huge upgraded version - size of a desk, 5 meters RGB strip.
http://coolarduino.wordpress.com/2011/02/10/color-organ-spectrum-analyzer-on-arduino/