Hello again everyone!
Thank you for so many answers!
HellasT:
Yes... driving a relay with an arduino is pretty much the same as iperating a LED. I could easily provide you with a diagram but im not on my pc so... There are lots of people here that will do that for you though.
I would love to see diagram so I could imagine what exactly I'm building. Like I said I can code but hardware part I just start to learn. So if you or anyone could provide me with that it could be great. I don't want to burn anything 
zwieblum:
Won't need to handle motor current, just intercept the joystick or what ever device is used for steering. Playing with the actual electric comonents of the chair will leve you in a bad position when something happens.
I don't want to mess with stering device just buton connected shru jack to it.
larryd:
Not kidding, stay inside when it’s too cold, we do.
When I say cold I mean less then 15C. It is enough to stop my hands listen me.
SteveMann:
Interesting concept. I have been looking for an inexpensive voice input device for my Telephone AI project and I may have found exactly what you are looking for.
I want use microphone in my phone or laptop and just send stop signal to Arduino thru USB. This way I have more programming flexibility, can program city sounds filtering or even send SMS that I'm stucked somewhere.
lastchancename:
Excuse me if this sounds negative, but I’d be thinking about a 2-part trigger of any sort.
What happens if you’re crossing the road, a car brakes suddenly with screeching tyres. Perhaps smarter voice recognition, and a bump bar which you can hit with your arms or feet?
I have first line of defense, safety button under my thumb but I can use it when it is cold. Hour spent outside and in temperaturę like 15C and I can't move my finger. I need something other to make me stop if something happened.
HellasT:
Okay maybe instead of cutting the motor power he can safely use the relay to engage the kill switch.
I don't see how that can pose any danger.
Though I have to admit that without knowing your true condition it is very hard to advice you. Specially on such thing. Also driving uncontrollably can be a real danger not only for you.
The switch I want simulate don't cut power of motors. It turn off whole wheelchair like simple on off button.
My condition: I can minimal move only my thumbs, one I use to drive using mini joystick, second one I can push button. When it is cold my fingers can move uncontrolable or don't move at all. Me and wheelchair together weight 200kg and speed up to 10km/h. It could kill me or someone if I lost control over it that is why I want make 'scream safety buttons' and I will be thankful for help 