Lilypad Arduino Doesn't Upload Sketches

hello i'm trying to upload sketches to my lilypad i just got and it's having some trouble i keep getting this error:

Binary sketch size: 1124 bytes (of a 14336 byte maximum)

avrdude: stk500_recv(): programmer is not responding
avrdude: stk500_recv(): programmer is not responding

i have a 4 pin version and i'v tried pressing the reset button alot and nothing helps.

well nevermind, i got it working with some button pressing.