For an open source project I've made a list of tools supplies and service for doing DIY. Part numbers, vendors prices, comments on the tools are all included in the spreadsheet. There are only about 2 items that I don't personally have used.
If you are getting started, this can help you a bit. If you want to contribute, comment, or correct, please post your row of information (don't have to be complete but prefer with mfg and part#).
Importance: The rows are organized approximately in the order of importance.
Category: Tools are for general use and soldering Tools SMD are only useful for surface mount soldering Same applies to Supplies
Here is the spreadsheet: Tools supplies