Mega 2560 R3 and Xbee Pro XSC 900 problems

So I'm completely new to this and I thought I was going about it the correct way by buying the Wireless Sensor Networks book when I purchased my boards and xbee's. I'm following along in the book and of course the book recommends that I do not use the pro xcs 900's but that is what I have and now I need some help.

I have the Xbee's configured to the default settings. I do not see anywhere in the settings using X_CTU where I can set the destination address high and destination address low. I only see a Destination address which it only accepts a 4 bit address. So I'm not sure what to do here. I originally left it alone because I think I read somewhere that if they were both on the same address that they would talk to each other.

Everything seemed to be going well until I loaded the doorbell sketch onto the Mega's. As soon as I load the sketch on I completely loose the ability to communicate with both Xbee's through X-CTU. This leads me to believe that is has something to do with the baud rate because it is setting it in the sketch using Serial.begin(9600). I can load the slow blink program I found in the tutorials and I can still talk to the Xbee's through X-CTU with no problems. I realize that the 9600 baud rate associated with the Xbee Pro is talking about the rate between Xbee's. So I thought maybe I should change the Serial.begin command to 19200 which didn't help either.

I feel like there is something that I'm missing so I decided to ask for help. So please if anyone knows what I'm doing incorrectly I would really appreciate it if you could guide me in the right direction.

Just in case anyone would want to know this. I figured out my problem. I'm using the xbee breakout board BOB-08276 from sparkfun. I'm able to get X-CTU to communicate as well as Tera Term but I've never been able to get the arduino's to communicate. Until I realized that having the transmit connected to the receive allows me to communicate directly with the Xbee but in order for the arduino to send anything out through the xbee I need to switch the wires so Tx goes to Tx and Rx goes to Rx. I know that this is a stupid mistake but it would have been really nice if it had mentioned this in the Wireless Sensor Networks book because I've been working on this for basically two days straight. But this is definitely something that I will never forget again. I hope this helps someone else

Also I ended up using the settings below to finally get them to talk everything else was standard default.

Modem: XBP09-XSC Function Set: XBEE-PRO XSC 9600 Version: 1022
Arduino Mega 2560 R3 and Arduino Mega 2560 R1 (I think it's R1?)

ATID 2001
ATDT 0100 ---- Since there is no way to actually put ATDH ATDL

hey,i have been working on these for far too long,do youve to configure both with the same pan address and ATDT?