I tried all examples from UIPEthernet and none worked. From Ethercard worked all when i set SS to 53.
It seems my wiring are ok, but problem is that my MEGA can not communicate with ENC28J60 module with UIPEthernet library through SPI pins.
Or i must set SS pin to 53 somewhere, or i must set in driver that i am using MEGA instead of UNO. Something is just not right.