Mega + XBee shield

I have a Mega and an Xbee shield, and unfortunately, they don't work as intended together. I can't flash the Xbee according to the shield's instructions. I can't remove the chip from the board (easily... ;))

Is anyone else using these devices, and gotten around this limitation?

Also, has anyone found a way to incorporate the reset feature built in to the chip? Ladyada's solution won't work as far as I know because the reset pin is built in to the CTS pin, not the RTS pin as the software allows.

I would like to order a new arduino MEGA for IO port purose, dose it don't work with Xbee ?

dose anyone have some solution yet?

After i got arduino MEGA it work great with xbee shield, no problem at all.