Jack777:
easy way to make it ignore the /r /n incoming?
was thinking have it change a separate variable that only changes a few specific ways (Like a switch case, but I couldn't get that to work either)
That's not very clear, but I think you probably have the right idea. You just need to make your code that parses the Serial input ignore those characters. That will be easiest to accomplish if you get rid of that while loop thing you have. Your code should only have one call to Serial.read().
Maybe have a look at the examples in Serial Input Basics - simple reliable non-blocking ways to receive data. There is also a parse example to illustrate how to extract numbers from the received text.