i just figed out that when i press the botton on the remote it gos high and stays high till i press it again.
I have something similar - those decoder chips usually come in two different types, momentary and latching – it looks like you have the latching type and you want the momentary version.
This is the momentary contact version of the chip used in the receiver: http://cgi.ebay.com.my/PT2272-M4-RF-decode-IC-compectable-with-SC2272-M4_W0QQitemZ290334056957QQcmdZViewItemQQptZLH_DefaultDomain_0?hash=item43994221fd&_trksid=p4634.c0.m14.l1262