so the wave shield should be wired to those pins as needed, for the RTC and lcd+ buttons, should i wire both to the SDA (Analog 4) and SCL (Analog 5)? I know they are both I2C interfaces but i wasnt sure if i should just use a Y in the wire and put both in the one pin out on the board.
Waveshield, those look more like SPI pins (10-11-12-13) and not I2C pins. 2,3,4,5 are not I2C either.
I2C is located at A4, A5 on the Uno.
I2C, all devices are wired in parallel with 4.7K pullup resistors. Each device watches for it address to come over the line.
SPI, all devices are wired in parallel for SCK, MISO, MOSI, and each device gets a unique chip select/slave select to know when it is selected.