I am trying to use a 8 output relay to control 8 Lights of 12 Volts each
here is the relay I am using labhitech.com
I need to send a signal to the RS 485 input of the relay, but i am not exactly sure how to send a signal from arduino to another device.
Any One ever used similar Device ?
If it is RS485 then you need an RS485 shield to convert the signals from the TTL levels to RS485. This is a simple serial port, To send something out to a serial port just use the serial print command.
Do i need to build something like this described on this page
Something like that should be fine. You would really only need to make it into a shield if you wanted to make it more convenient to connect and disconnect.