need help with simple code please?

Can someone help me write a code to run a relay module that will go on for one second and off after i press a button on any ir remote.im using an arduino uno,ir receiver and a relay module.i just need it to see any ir remote when i press a button to activate relay for a second then off again.im not good at writing code still and i have tried for days now.any help would be greatly appreciated! thx

i have tried for days

Show us what you have tried.

here's my code i have tried

#include <IRremote.h>

int IRpin = 11; // pin for the IR sensor
int relay = 8; // LED pin
IRrecv irrecv(IRpin);
decode_results results;

void setup()
{
Serial.begin(9600);
irrecv.enableIRIn(); // Start the receiver
pinMode(relay, OUTPUT);
}

void loop()
{

if (irrecv.decode(&results))
{

irrecv.resume(); // Receive the next value
}

if (results.value > 0) // change zero to your IR remote button number
{
digitalWrite(relay, HIGH);
delay(1000); // keeps the transistion smooth

}
else
{
digitalWrite(relay, LOW);

}

}

#include <IRremote.h>

int IRpin = 11;  // pin for the IR sensor
int relay = 8;    // LED pin 
int flag;
IRrecv irrecv(IRpin);
decode_results results;



void setup()
{
   flag=0;
  irrecv.enableIRIn(); // Start the receiver
  pinMode(relay, OUTPUT);
}

void loop()
{
   
  if (irrecv.decode(&results)) {
    
  if (results.value =0xFF42BD)  // replace the 0xFF42BD with the result you get
     { if (flag==0)

     { //your code here


          flag = 1;
           
         }
   else
          {
           // your code here



         flag = 0;
     
          }
        
     }
      irrecv.resume();

}


}

Upload the following code, point your remote control at your receiver
to get the hex code

after that, replace it with 0xFF42BD above

/*
 * IRremote: IRrecvDemo - demonstrates receiving IR codes with IRrecv
 * An IR detector/demodulator must be connected to the input RECV_PIN.
 * Version 0.1 July, 2009
 * Copyright 2009 Ken Shirriff
 * http://arcfn.com
 */

#include <IRremote.h>

int RECV_PIN = 11;

IRrecv irrecv(RECV_PIN);

decode_results results;

void setup()
{
  Serial.begin(9600);
  irrecv.enableIRIn(); // Start the receiver
}

void loop() {
  if (irrecv.decode(&results)) {
    Serial.println(results.value, HEX);
    irrecv.resume(); // Receive the next value
  }
  delay(100);
}