New to the game and already lost :D trying to figure out what i need to make car push button work like i want

It (the connector but probably not the battery) evidently comes as part of a "beginners" kit. What was possibly missing from the kit was the matching carrier for six alkaline "AA" cells.

Not that I ever of course, would recommend powering the Arduino via "Vin" or the "barrel jack". :astonished: