A pull up pulls the pin UP to Vcc, a pull down pulls it DOWN to GND. You need the resistor to your reset pin to be a pull UP. Crystal caps need to be 22pf (although I've used 27pf successfully).
I think the decoupling caps for the power supply need to be 10uf, but I don't think matching that is as important as having the correct caps on the crystal.
Definitely make the resistor on pin 1 a pull up, the way you have it right now your chip is not going to be able to start up.