changed to this
#include <..\Wire\Wire.h>
now I'm only getting
LiquidCrystal_I2C.cpp: In member function 'void LiquidCrystal_I2C::init_priv()':
LiquidCrystal_I2C.cpp:67: error: 'Wire' was not declared in this scope
LiquidCrystal_I2C.cpp: In member function 'void LiquidCrystal_I2C::expanderWrite(uint8_t)':
LiquidCrystal_I2C.cpp:259: error: 'Wire' was not declared in this scope