Your doing it right. One can't program or many other things
for that matter without being able to detach ones emotions from
ones work( I is hard to do but at least I know it needs to be done
but I haven't always been able to do it myself, when needed ).
In order to fix things, one has to be blunt.
What one is trying to do is either wrong or right, sorry about that.
Some times it is so wrong, one needs to
rip it up and start over.
Dwight