I hope to be in the right section form my question:
I should control a relay which is not wirable directly to the arduino, because it is mounted on a rotating disk.
I though to use some sort of radio control so that arduino transmits the signal and the relay catches it in some way.
That relay appears to be servo-controlled, so an RC receiver could be directly connnected to
it. You would need an Arduino-controlled RC transmitter to communicate with it.
You need to check if it has sufficient current and voltage rating on the contacts for your load.
There are other approaches to this, such as IR or XBees/ISM modules, Bluetooth or even WiFi.
For 3m range you could try infrared Transmitter/Receiver method, like TV remote control. But without using the TV-Code, just Switch on the IR-Transmitter Diode by digitalWrite ( IRpin, HIGH );
The receiver Diode will recognise the Signal and could switch a transistor to power the Relais. No arduino or receiver needed on the receiver side.