#2 showed that your SPI interface was working.
I am pleased that you have got the TFT working now. You should find that Marek's ILI9341_due library will work, ILI9341_PDQ, ILI9341_t3, ... as well as Adafruit_ILI9341 library.
Please note that Adafruit examples deliberately omit the RST argument in the constructor.
This is probably to make your Red board fail. Add the RST argument and the board will work.
Personally, I put TFT, Touch and SD all on the same 3.3V hardware SPI bus.
David.