For 250V I doubt you'l find any MOSFET with 3.3V gate drive - that would be so fragile to dV/dt transients
burning out the gate oxide. At that sort of voltage its worth considering IGBTs too.
For high voltages like this use a MOSFET gate driver chip powered from 12V, that can drive any MOSFET
you want and be controlled from 3V logic. Strong gate drive protects a MOSFET from dV/dt influences
For lower voltages you will find some low gate voltage logic-level MOSFETs, mainly surface mount.
You haven't explained what you mean by "best". That might be some complicated function of cost,
switching speed, gate charge, package type, on resistance and avalanche rating!