I was wondering if it was possible to redefine the reset pin? I would like to have the 3x2 SPI header to include Slave Select instead of Reset, removing the need for a separare SS connection from the Arduino to the circuit (in addition to the 3x2).
Because you have not told us what Arduino you have, it may be difficult to answer. On an Uno, the reset pin can NOT be reassigned as an Arduino pin, but it may be used also as bit 6 on port C.
• RESET/PCINT14 – Port C, Bit 6
RESET, Reset pin: When the RSTDISBL Fuse is programmed, this pin functions as a normal I/O pin, and the part will have to rely on Power-on Reset and Brown-out Reset as its reset sources. When the RSTDISBL Fuse is unprogrammed, the reset circuitry is connected to the pin, and the pin can not be used as an I/O pin.
I have never needed to change fuse settings before, but I am sure there are plenty of tutorials out there. If you need to know the fuse settings, then you can google "avr fuse calculator" and get a website like THIS. After I selected the RSTDISBL bit, I end up with this...