I was in your position around 2 years ago when I considered making my own led controller, which over the following 12 months turned into a fully blown controller for all of my equipment i.e. return pumps, skimmer pump etc. This was initially based on a 20x4 LCD display and keypad but I am currently working on a TFT LCD with Touch screen controller.
You may find that someone else has done exactly what you require using your hardware, but the chances are slim. So, if you are going to end up with what you want then you will need to learn the programming language. Take baby steps, add one thing at a time and get that working - start with blinking a led so that you understand what you are doing.
This forum is great for answering specific questions that you may have, but you can't expect someone to teach you the language - my estimate is that my first controller would have taken in excess of 200 hours to complete, spread over 12 months but lots of that was researching how to do things.
There are quite a few threads on Reefcentral which may help get you started.