I found a replacement processor. ?16,00 and up to 2 weeks waiting. From a store in Dordrecht (The Netherlands)
Also bought solder-wick and a new solder-tip. Will practice soldering smt components on old motherboards first.
Also ordered a Duemilanove online and that one should be in tomorrow.
The positive effect of being without an arduino is that i finally arduino-ized my asuro robot.
Jeroen