I would like to make a game show contest type "ring in" system for a youth group to use. I understand the Arduino parts of the system, but I need some kind of robust (the kids can get "enthusiastic"), hand held, thumb activated switch.
I have searched some of the component catalogs, but 102,848 choices for "Switch" are intimidating, and perhaps I just don't know the key search phrase.
Do you need the switch to be wireless or is wired fine?
If wireless, I would say put an IR sensor on the Arduino and use whatever IR remote you like (old TV remotes for instance). This works best inside normal sized rooms, because even if they don't aim the remote at the sensor, the IR light can bounce off of walls, etc. Get a remote with different key sequences for each player.
SIS-7C chip that moves the IR library too to a dedicated chip to recognize 7 different IR button presses: SIMEREC Chips
For a wired button, you might want to look at an arcade button, particularly the ones with LEDs inside (you would need to turn on the light separately when the button is pressed, but that is a simple matter of programming). I'm imagining that having the feedback that their button was pressed would be useful. I'm listing some of the arcade buttons from Adafruit, other colors are available. You would have to make a small base to hold the button:
I would recommend using something like an audio 3.5mm phono cable that pulls out easily for connecting the switch, and not something that is screwed or soldered in place, so that if they are so energetic, all you have to do is plug the cable back in.