setTime(10,1,0,9,14,16);
This is a time library command to reference the internal millis clock to an external time. The syntax is
setTime(int hr,int min,int sec,int day, int month, int yr);
For today's date, you have the day and month transposed.
I believe that the reason your relays are not working is that you have not set the pinMode to OUTPUT for the relay pins.