SD examples and chip select definition

An old thread, but the discussion above is exactly where my concern lies.

After reading up (again) on SPI I'm still not clear on difference between CS_pin and SS_PIN.

I'm using the MEGA SPI port (50,51,52) to drive a sparkfun microSD shield
The UNO SPI pins 11,12,13 are re-directed in my design.
The CS_pin is on D8, the microSD default (i.e. SD.begin(CS_pin).
I don't define SS_PIN as it is set to pin53 and an output by the SD library (in sd2PinMap.h) automatically for a MEGA. The SD card is functioning correctly.

But I want to use pin 10 for a non-SD related task (backlight on an LCD) but as soon as SD is accessed the backlight fails.

Why is pin 10 unavailable, when the SS_PIN is 53 on MEGA?

thanks