sending of spoofing FM signals to a RC car ?

That's kinda what I said. If the motor goes in Ch1 then it can be controlled by the arduino too.

I'm guessing your referring to the speed control circuit board.
Motor <= speed control <= receiver
Correct?
You can use the speed controller that's fine just make sure the grounds both motor and arduino are connected. Leave off the positive from the motor and just use the signal wire to the arduino.