Regarding the schematics http://www.seeedstudio.com/wiki/images/f/fb/Stalker_v2.2_schematic.pdf .. would pin 0 (rxd) and pin 1 (txd) be right for the cummunication with the bluetooth bee?
Yes, they would.
but arent these pins used for the serial communication with my pc
Yes, they are.
You get to choose which device (PC or bluetooth) you want to talk to. Both is not an option. With that board, anyway. The XBee shields I have allow selecting which pins (0 and 1 or 2 and 3) to use. Not perfect, since those are the external interrupt pins, but better than the "screw you, we'll tell you which pins to use" shield you have.
i am confused.. im sorry if these question sounds stupid
Not at all. What's stupid is the lack of choice built into the shield.