Nick, that is an outstanding link, thanks very much!
I am confused about something though. On the slave Arduino, could I use any pin I liked as slave select, or must it be the SS pin identified in the data sheet (and called pin 10 on an Uno)? Reading your instruction about using an interrupt pin to tell the slave to start receiving, you seems to imply that this is possible. But, I didn't see any code that told the uC that a different SS pin was being used. Does that mean that the uC does not care, and its just up to the slave code in the sketch to start the receiving process when whatever SS pin is asserted?
Also, you said the interrupt version could be used with any interrupt pin. Is there any reason that a pin change interrupt could not be used?
Thank you!