st7789 doesnt display properly on nano until reset is held

am I missing a wire or a link all pins go s followed
#01 GND -> GND
#02 VCC -> VCC (3.3V only!)
#03 SCL -> D13/SCK
#04 SDA -> D11/MOSI
#05 RES -> D8 or any digital
#06 DC -> D7 or any digital
#07 BLK -> NC

cant rule anything out ground is fine and wires are fine, just doesn't show properly (almost seems as its not loaded right, then when reset is held it shows fine

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