First off. It is better to copy-paste output than to post an enormous screen picture.
Your picture in message #3 is from a Nano.
Your picture in message #4 is from a Uno.
Neither look correct. If you wire things wrong on a Nano, you will damage the display.
If you do plug the shield into the Uno properly, you will NOT damage the shield.
If a Nano is wired correctly, you will get the SAME output as from a Uno.
Since neither output makes any sense, I do not recognise any controller at all. Your display might be damaged.
I suggest that you plug it into a different good Uno. It should mate as nature intended. Try again.
You could plug it into a Mega and try again.