MorganS:
Please wrap [ url ] tags around your links. Many people here are using tablets and phones and it's difficult to copy-paste links.Melting the wires is not really the problem. Inside the relay, it's the contacts which make and break the circuit that wear out. For something that switches once or twice a day, that will give you many years of useful life.
I tend to believe the ratings stamped on the outside of the relay. If you can get good connections to the relay - via the socket base - then you should be OK to use the relay up to its maximum rating. "Good connections" also includes good isolation between the wires. If there's a plastic shield wall between the screw terminals - no matter how thin - then you should be good to go for normal mains voltages.
Thanks MorganS! I will make sure i have good solid connection on the base and proper sized wires.
Have a good day!
Sabin