Trying not to fry another Nano

I think I spotted another problem. You are powering the Bluetooth module from the Nano's 3V3 pin. That pin can only supply a very low current, maybe not enough for the Bluetooth module. One of the differences between Nano and Uno is that Nano does not have a dedicated 3.3V regulator on board. The 3.3V comes from the USB-to-Serial chip and can only supply a little current.