Awesome, this worked (still had to do the winAVR thing, but that is fine).
Thank you so much.
Also, just FYI, as I am newish to forums and this may happen to other users.
Every day I checked "My Latest Posts" to see if there was any responses to my post. There never were, and I was sad.
Finally I decided to reply to my post to bump it up, and to my surprise when the reply went through, you had replied to my post so long ago!
If I had not tried to bump my post, I would have never seen your post, and would have probably never gotten my ATtiny working.
Again, thank you for your help, and just a heads up on that non-noob-friendly button.