TTP223B capacitive sensor stuck in toggle mode?

Hey everyone, hope your days are going great!

I got some stuff including the aforementioned sensors: https://www.amazon.de/SainSmart-Digital-Capacitive-Arduino-TTP223B/dp/B00K8PO3ZK/ref=sr_1_8?ie=UTF8&qid=1480603292&sr=8-8&keywords=ttp223B

i know, expensive as a mofo but I am impatient to the max.

anyhow, I connected them to use as a button controlling a set of relays using the OneButton library and all they do is toggle between hi and lo each touch while the description says:

Jog type : the initial state is low , high touch , do not touch is low ( similar touch of a button feature )

HAAAAALP!

TL;DR

my touch sensors are acting as a toggle switch and not a button: what do?!