Thanx alot!
I'm going to start playing around with that immediately, i see i will have to program my Transmitter to "talk the talk" of a standard transmitter, maybe this is a viable next step.
I'm currently using this 4Channel 433MHz link http://www.seeedstudio.com/wiki/index.php?title=2KM_Long_Range_RF_link_kits_w/_encoder_and_decoder
it has 4 dedicated channels on both TX and RX, so whatever you put in on TX will come out on the RX side.
I just stumbled accross a great website explaining how to read multiple RC channels from a standard Remote control in details http://rcarduino.blogspot.com/ so SO SO close to almost exactly what i need hahaha 
I will keep on fiddling with the code.