Sorry for taking me so long.
I tried all the three options (the first and the third ones gave me reversed text and the secont one blank screen with faded stripes).
My link board is this:
https://www.aliexpress.com/snapshot/7043687655.html?spm=a2g0s.9042647.6.2.bDd3JO&orderId=70437905098137&productId=1843466129
The model on the board:
3.95" TFTLCD for arduino mega 2560(ili9488)