I guess we will go with no news is good news :).
I checked all the parts were rated over 400 volts AC.
I don't exactly know resistor packages but 0805 seems to be a bit on the large end but I believe well smaller then it needs to be especially with both sides of the board available and like tinman13kup was saying if they are too small they may become difficult to handle.
After doing some closer checking the capacitor is pretty big. I chose another rated at 250 VAC but much smaller (still pretty big) -- CB042K0103KBC by AVX
.01 capacitor datasheet
After more checking my 39 ohm was not rated above 60V so I have changed to a ERJ-P06J390V by panasonic -- 0805.
39 ohm datasheet
Oh I checked into a rework station I found a couple between $39 and $120 doesn't seem too unreasonable and watched the sparkfun video on using the device.
I am just not sure about the snubberless thing. So I am going to include the snubber circuit. There is nothing saying it can hurt and prototype circuit has one and works great.
Now I have to find these parts in an eagle library or we may be seeing a thread about creating eagle parts by scratch.
Search engine with all eagle libs
Thanks again all